Am I Being Stalked?
So, there was this person online that my boyfriend and I had beef with after some Niche Community Drama literally like 5 years ago. My boyfriend made a post warning about the subject of the community drama (a person who had a huge following and was 17, going on 18, at the time, but the post was necessary).
I won't recap the fallout of the post my partner made, since it isn't relevant, but N really didn't like that. And basically nobody liked that I openly agreed with my partner making the post. But N really didn't like that. They kept making post after post about how we're dangerous, mentally ill predators and how they and other people were going to spread our information so that we would never be able to be in pagan/witchcraft spaces Ever Again. N had tags dedicated to us and was constantly keeping tabs on us.
We did respond a few times and said that N was being actually deranged about us and N did end up deleting and remaking their account. They sent threatening anons to my partner and kept posting about how we were stalking them and that's why they kept remaking.
We were not stalking N, they just kept fucking tagging us in posts and kept sending threatening anons and kept talking about us.
I made a post saying that, while I think it's good that N did x, they way they talked about us was unhealthy. I tried to sound as gentle as possible to show that I wasn't trying to be unreasonable or anything and N blew the fuck up and called me dangerous, unstable and delusional (we both have the same mental health diagnosis. You are ALSO delusional). That was the last more-or-less direct interaction between any of us.
My partner found a post they made on their new account while browsing Tumblr and I wanted to see the post and...N has me blocked.
The account I use did not exist when we last interacted. My pagan/witchcraft blog was a separate blog either way, and I never told people about my main. I changed the URL a few times over the past few years. N should not know about this account. My current Tumblr does not discuss any of the same topics as N's, so they wouldn't have come across it normally. I also just don't make very many original posts. I only have like 30 followers, so I'm not big enough to be on some blocklist (though, I don't know why I would be, considering how few of my opinions I post about. Reblog? sure, but I think the OP's would be blocked first, right?).
There is also nothing that would indicate that the blog N was familiar with and my current account were run by the same person, beyond being the same age and using the same pronouns. I was also pretty tight lipped about my life, hobbies and opinions on my old pagan account so, there is very little to go off of if you're trying to figure out if the same person is running these accounts.
This is so weird, man. I dunno.